“The Eloquent Unmasking”
By Ubong Essien, CSP — Dean, School of Eloquence
From Fear to Flow: Discovering the Human Behind the Mask
Eloquence often hides behind a mask. For many aspiring speakers, that mask is fear—fear of being judged, fear of failure, fear of exposure. But at the School of Eloquence, we teach that fear is not an enemy—it’s a masquerade.
As Monica discovered in her coaching journey, every time she avoided public speaking, the mask grew stronger. But with every speaking opportunity embraced, the mask began to fall away—cheek by cheek, until what remained was simply a human being speaking to fellow humans.
Eloquence begins the moment we reframe public speaking. It is not a performance to be feared but an engagement to be embraced. It is not a pedestal of perfection but a platform for connection.
When fear is acknowledged—not eliminated but understood—confidence can begin to grow. As we learn, observe, and practice, we shift from paralysis to progress. The trembling voice steadies. The static hands come alive. The message finds its strength.
Monica’s journey reminds us that every mask removed is a milestone gained.
And beneath every fear, there is an eloquent voice—waiting to be heard.
